Confessions of a working mom

This is not a post about working mom's vs. stay-at-home moms. I been both at different points in life and they are both hard. In fact, sometimes I am more exhausted on the days I stay home than when I go into work. It's just a different kind of exhaustion. What I have been currently experiencing is the drop over, brain-dead, peel off the sweaty socks and fall on the couch while the kids eat fruit loops right out of the box, variety. And here are some guilty little shortcuts I take on a regular basis:

1-We eat off of Styrofoam plates on weeknights. I find that Styrofoam seems more like real dinnerware than paper plates. Too bad they are not recyclable. We do recycle other things, but the plates are definitely one black smudge on my record.

2-I sometimes let my kids put themselves to bed. No bedtime story. No prayers. No tucking-in of covers. We do pray and read stories at other times, just not always at bedtime.

3-Speaking of bedtime, it is not uncommon for me to hit the sack immediately after I put the kids to bed (or they put themselves to bed). At 8:30. Yes it is still light outside.

4-I iron on the floor. This is a multi-faceted issue. For starters, the ironing board is kept in our bedroom and could use a good squirt of DW40. I am usually ironing at 5:30 in the morning and don't want to wake Chris. Plus, I hate to iron so this task must be done as quickly as possible. Throwing a towel on the floor and running a few quick swipes over my shirt works well enough.

5-I am having someone come in and clean once a month. I struggled with this for a long time because no one in my family has ever used a cleaning service. I am from a down-home, salt of the earth, blue collar background. We don't use cleaning services. On the other hand, if it allows me a few more hours to enjoy my family, it's probably worth it. And the cost of a cleaning service is still cheaper than a chiropractor, a counselor or anti-depressants (I read that in a book).

6-I sometimes don't wash my face or brush my teeth before I go to bed. Call me unhygienic if you want, but I did get a gold star at my last dentist visit.

7-I religiously do one load of laundry before work every morning. No matter what. You can usually find me sitting on the floor of our tiny laundry room in the wee hours of the morning folding or sorting or washing. It is a dreaded task, but the only way I have found to permanently keep the laundry monster at bay.

8-I am doing a lot more cooking ahead. This past Sunday I made 2 lasagnas and an enormous pot of beef stew. It's Tuesday and we're still eating the spoils and I have maintained a safe distance from the kitchen. I do a dinner coop with my frind Karen. She cooks for me on Wednesday and I cook for her on Thursday. I am getting together with a group of friends this Sunday to make-ahead 8 meals to freeze. In my perfect world, I would never have to come home from work and cook dinner. Maybe someday I'll figure out a way to swing it.


In other news, here are a few recent quotes from the girls:
Meagan (as I was waking her up in the morning): "Awww, mom, I was fighting a woolly mammoth!"

Alina has recently begun calling Port-a-potties, "trash can bathrooms"

Meagan:
"If you lived on an island and you dug deep enough, would you get to the ocean?"


Me: "What was Bible class about today?"
NiNi: "Jesus....AGAIN."

We were on our way to go to out to eat and Meagan was whining about our restaurant selection. Chris said, "Meagan, stop being manipulative." Meagan responded, "I'm not being manipulative... I'm just trying to make you choose what I want."

NiNi was crying for no reason (this happens often) while riding in the grocery cart. When I asked her what was the matter, she said, "Jesus is not making me taller."

NiNi (looking out the window): "There's a chunky baby out there. Very chunky. I like to say that word"

Chris: "Did mommy fix your bike?" (it had a squeeky wheel)
NiNi: "Yeah, she put some W-OK on it"